Getting ready for your visit to the CAC

We know this can feel like a stressful time, so here are a few things that may help you and your child feel more prepared.

Bring your concerns. Write down any questions or worries you have about your child and bring them with you. You know your child best, and your input matters.
Don’t bring up the abuse yourself. Before the appointment, try not to start conversations with your child about the abuse. If your child wants to talk, it’s okay to let them share—just listen and reassure them.
What to tell your child. You can say something simple, like: “I’m not sure exactly what questions they’ll ask, but I know you’ll do great. The person you’ll talk to is really good at helping kids feel comfortable when they need to talk about tough things.” Encourage your child to tell the truth and remind them it’s okay to share what they already told you or someone else. Let them know they are not in any trouble.
Offer reassurance. Remind your child that you’ll be nearby during the interview. You might also tell them: “Other kids go to the CAC too, and it’s a safe place to talk.”

The Interview

The family room

As soon as you and your child walk through the doors, our family advocates are here to help. Their job is to ease worries about “what’s next” and make sure you feel supported every step of the way. Advocates will explain what to expect during your visit, connect you with local resources, help set up therapy services if needed, and continue to support your family as you move through the court process.

The CAC is designed to feel safe and welcoming for kids. When you arrive to the CAC our Advocate will escort you to our family room. Inside the family room, you'll find toys, books, stuffed animals, and a TV—because we want children to feel as comfortable as possible.

Before your child’s interview our, advocate will walk you through the interview process, show you the interview room, and answer any questions you may have. This is also a good time to share anything important about your child—such as how they’re feeling, their development, language skills, or any special needs.

Meeting the Interviewer. Next, the interviewer will introduce herself to you and your child before guiding your child to the interview room. Each interview is a little different and the length depends on your child’s needs, what they share, and their comfort level.

After your child’s interview begins, the Family Advocate will meet with you and any other caregivers. Their role is to give your family the tools and information you need to support, understand, and protect your child.

Family Advocates can also connect you with specialized resources to help address challenges that may come up as a result of what your child has experienced. They’ll provide referrals to trusted professionals and community supports so you don’t have to figure everything out on your own.

During the interview, the interviewer will spend time building trust with your child and asking open, non-leading questions. The interview is recorded to make sure your child’s words are preserved. Only the interviewer will speak with your child, while other team members (such as a social worker, detective, and medical staff) observe from another room.

The Interview Room

After the Interview

The Law Enforcement assigned to the case and/or the Department for Children and Families (DCF) investigator may want to talk with you before and/or after the interview. At this time, they may be able to tell you what may happen next regarding the investigation. This may also be a good time for you to share information and your concerns.

The advocate assigned to your case will continue to support you and your child throughout the investgation, court process, and even after. At the interview, your advocate will give you his/her contact information to contact with any questions or concerns.

When a child must testify in court, our advocates will be with you and your child every step of the way. The advocate provides information about court, court terminology, and the court process for you and your child. The advocate also provides support during meetings with prosecution and tours of the court room, and can provide recommendations on how to manage stress and anxiety related to testifying.